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My GG girlfriend tells her story...
Dizzy is what Robyn is but perhaps I should start at the beginning and tell you how I got to know of Robyn.
We were three months in to our relationship and I must admit I did have my suspicions that there was perhaps an alter ego. I tried to make it clear that this would not be a problem but perhaps I didnt make my self clear enough in case I was wrong & caused offence or perhaps Robyn didnt want to believe it would be so easy for me to accept.
After many times of being told that there was something I should know I was handed a photograph . I took one look at it and say And I was then promptly told thats Me it was said defensively rather than proudly which is a shame considering that this is still my favourite photograph of Robyn (below).
I made the decision that I wanted to see Robyn appear so I sat, watched and occasionally asked a question, at first Robyn was nervous but gradually seemed to relax once it was realised that I wasnt going to freak out about it.
It has taken me quite a long time to get him to realise that its no longer a secret and that he can talk to me about Robyn and that I have no objections to Robyn being around. At the beginning when I came home and found tell tale signs that Robyn had been around that day i.e. still showing signs of wearing eye liner I would have to keep asking questions until he admitted it. Luckily these days Robyn will tell me straight away & even voluntarily show me any new photographs
Obviously there are some advantages and disadvantages to Robyns existence. One main advantage is that Robyn is very sensitive to female feeling and emotions so he can be very considerate. Robyn also adores shopping for new clothes and make up and my presence has may this a lot easier for him, however before we go I make should I know what Robyn would like to buy because he tends to follow me around the female clothes shops so when I think Ive found the right item I hold it up in front of myself and ask if he likes it and because we are the same size its easy for people to assume its for me. This avoids unnecessary whispering in the shop, which can cause embarrassment for Robyn because he thinks people will hear that we are really buying for him. I have told Robyn not to use my clothes because I feel its better for Robyn to have her own clothes and style and Im happy to say if I think it looks good or not, after all Robyn returns the favour although its hard for Robyn to accept that women dont always want to wear high heels, short skirts & nylons and that trousers and flat shoes have their place too. Honestly they do.
However one disadvantage is the Robyn thinks hes the worlds expert on Makeup and believe me it can be very annoying for your boyfriend to constantly be giving you make up tips and no I wont admit that sometimes hes right. He also has trouble grasping the ideas that I dont always want to wear make up and that Im very happy to go out without wearing any at all.
At the beginning I said that Robyn was dizzy and this is true. This came to light when we were getting ready to go to the Rocky Horror Picture Show I lost count of how many times Robyn said he had forgotten something before we even managed to leave the house. This gave Robyn a good opportunity to go out as a female knowing that other men would be there also wearing heels and female attire. However we had to get from the car park to the theatre and it was raining hard and Robyns progress was rather slow apparently it was due to the high heeled shoes but its expected that I should wear high heels for a days shopping with out complaining!
Robyn look great in the pictures that you get to see but believe me there are plenty more that I have rejected. Robyn has decided that I should pick the pictures for the web I think this is so that I have some involvement in this public part of his life.
I know from reading the e-mails sent to Robyn that the web pages are found and appreciated by a lot of you & I hope that my part in the story will also help other girlfriends/partners to realize that there can be a place in their life for someone who is very in touch with there feminine side. Best wishes T. |




